It is quite apparent that Kathy Curry , a 53-year-old breast cancer survivor, has found her niche in life.      A little girl at  heart, Curry has always loved Victorian styles, and dressing up.  She is a jack- of-all-trades with talents in ceramics, gardening, flower arranging, and other crafts.  It was one night 18 months ago when  Curry came up with the idea of combining all her interests and hosting Victorian-style birthday parties for girls of all ages.      Those who know her bests say that there could not be a more perfect job for her.      "The Lord blessed me with this idea at two in the morning and it just took off from there." Curry said, "The moment I got the idea, I was so excited: I could visualize all that I wanted to do.  It took a year to get everything ready.  Some of the dresses and things were donated and I made a lot of the ceramic items myself.   It all started with changing my garden house to a playhouse."      Curry hosted her first party last winter on the coldest day of the year.  She showed her creativity and tailored the party to the season by making penguins out of olives for the occasion.      Rocking Horse Lane now offers unique birthday parties for girls of all ages.  Curry's home is just south of Oak Grove on Colbern exit.      "My main thing is that I notice how different children's lives are now than  that of my  own as a child,  I wanted to create a place for girls to be just girls.  This kind  of  birthday party is different because it is not so structured, there is more time for creativity and freedom," Curry said.        When first arriving at Curry's home girls are greeted and ushered into a room that would complete any girls' dream.  Victorian dresses of every size and color line the walls.  From short to long and fringe to lace, the options are endless.  Hats in multiple styles, shapes, and decorations grace several racks, and gloves and jewelry add the finishing touch.     Every girl creates her own outfit for the day and Curry also joins in on dressing up for Victorian parties, she wears her own dress and hat with long colorful plume.  Curry shops for her outfits at Vintage Vogue in independence.      "One day I walked into Vintage Vogue and told the women that I needed the most drop-dead gorgeous hat she had!  I have always worn hats whether they are in style or not, I love them," Curry said.      The girls enjoy her outfits as well.  The fact that she is so involved makes the party magical.      "I think that I have as much fun as the girls do sometimes," she said with a smile.  "and by the end of the party, we are all friends."        After everyone is dressed from head to toe, the girls venture outside to attend a tea party in a playhouse full of porcelain dolls, and real china.  On the way, they can stop to make a wish at the wishing well or play by the garden.  When looking around at the serene landscape, it is hard to believe that it all started with an old garden house and empty land.     Before tea time each girl sits down to design a special birthday card for the birthday girl.  Likewise, the birthday girl makes thank-you cards.     The events become very personal when Curry interviews the parent or grandparent of the birthday girl before the party.  She finds out her favorite foods, colors, and activities so the she can tailor the party to the girls special interests.      One child was excited to see her favorite sandwiches waiting at lunchtime.  She turned to her mother and asked "How did she know?" A beautiful playhouse...Kathy Curry sips tea in her playhouse. Curry hosts unique parties for girls of all ages at her home. Lunch during the parties take place in the playhouse, and the setting makes any girl feel like a princess. by Amber Dowler Curry prepares all the food for the luncheon.  She makes flower shaped sandwiches, fresh fruit cups, sweet parfaits and tiny teacakes.  A lot of the fruit and vegetables she grows in her large garden.      During the party, the girls get free time to play in the playhouse or outside.  A large dollhouse is a favorite of many guests.      "I want them to really enjoy their time here," Curry said.      The girls also take a picture together before leaving.  The birthday girl gets an 8 X 10 and each guest receives a wallet size.  Curry's husband snaps the picture and prints out the copies during the party so that the girls go home with their photo.      Each party includes a tea luncheon, a cake, petit flours, or cup cakes and a birthday photo.  Besides the popular Victorian- style part, Curry also offers three other types.  During a Cowgirl Campfire Cookout, girls dress in cowboy hats and sheriffs' badges, and eat around a large campfire.  At a Garden Party, girls plant flowers and pick fresh fruits and vegetables, and at a Craft Party, girls enjoy crafts and make their own ceramics.      Curry says that the greatest compliment she can receive is a girl walking away saying, "Well I know where I am going to have my birthday party!"      But tea parties are not only for little girls.  Curry has hosted several gatherings for friends and family in her playhouse and outdoor garden.      "I host parties for all girls from ages four to one-hundred and four," Curry said.  "This is like my second child-hood, and I love every minute of it.  I could see myself doing this until I am 80 years old," Curry said.      Curry opens her heart and her home to make every party special.  An afternoon sipping tea while wearing an extravagant hat takes you back in time and Curry could not be a more perfect host.  Rocking Horse Lane warms the heart of all girls whether young in age or young at heart.      Anyone interested in a party for any occasion, may call Curry at 816-625-9584 or go to rockinghorselane.com.  Tours are available for parents before the party. Hats galore!...One of many hat racks sits in the dressing room corner.  Girls can choose from a variety of dresses, hats and gloves to dress like a princess. Stepping back in thyme...Thyme lines stepping stones outside the playhouse at Rocking Horse Lane.  Girls love playing outside by the garden while attending birthday parties at Curry’s home. Rocking Horse Lane... A sign at the end of Curry’s driveway welcomes guests to her home. The sign is personalized for each party. Local woman creates timeless birthday parties The following article appeared in the Focus on Oak Grove newspaper on August 9, 2007